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3mm sounds like possible a bit more than you’d want. Easy to test with somebody holding a ruler at your close-up distance, measure pupils that way with your eyes turned inward a bit. Makes sense to do at high diopters and cylinder.
At -0.50 and less, removing cylinder often works out fine for differentials.
Checking in with the community might be totally worthwhile for some more interaction. 🙂